https://snailium.net/my-feeling/another-intepretation-of-fortress-besieged.html zh-CN 通常，人们会用一句话来描述“围城”心理——笼子里的鸟想出去，笼子外的鸟想进来。而且，“围城”心理被广泛地应用在描述出国者和要出国者心理上。但是，仔细想来，所谓“围城”心理并不是完全准确，而是完全... Thu, 18 Mar 2010 14:24:23 -0400 Thu, 18 Mar 2010 14:24:23 -0400 https://snailium.net/my-feeling/another-intepretation-of-fortress-besieged.html#comment-86 https://snailium.net/my-feeling/another-intepretation-of-fortress-besieged.html#comment-86 Thu, 18 Mar 2010 14:24:23 -0400 韩潇 最近看到，说belonging像饥饿口渴一样，是一种空缺需要。
即是说，没有的时候会痛苦到死，有很多却不会更快乐。小鸟飞来飞去，一直在填补空缺，却没有增加任何东西。
最后的最后，如人饮水，冷暖自知。

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